So i like this girl....

jasonInNy · 11-01-2009, 03:36 PM

BUt she is ALWAYS with at least 1 female friend.

Its ridiculous, do I ignore the friend and just try to talk to her? Do I talk to the friend first and ignore her a little at first? Or should i spend a bunch of time friending her friends?

Talking to multiple girls at the same time is like suicide lol...
1 girl... i can give it a good shot. 2 girls... bad bad idea.

Thoughts? Advice?

fairy_dreams · 11-01-2009, 03:45 PM

Just walk up to her, say "hey" to her friend, and start up a conversation. You don't have to spend time "friending" her friends, just being "friendly" will suffice.

advanced Lawlz · 11-01-2009, 03:47 PM

^I disagree.
Hire ninjas to abduct her friend and send her friend to Disneyland. Then go talk to her while her friend is frolicking with pedophilic mouses. That's what her friend gets for standing between you and your selfish desires.

Pumplemousse · 11-01-2009, 03:48 PM

Have you known her long?

Wartsandall · 11-01-2009, 05:03 PM

Most girls spend time with several other girls to avoid feeling awkward. Most people don't just want to be standing by themselves. I think you should just start out trying to be friends with her and her friends. Hopefully you can progress from there. Best of luck!

007Sen10r · 11-01-2009, 05:16 PM

if you can't talk to her friends then you most definitely can't like her that much... if you like her a lot then it won't matter to you that her friend is around when you start talkin to her... its that easy

smilemyonly · 11-01-2009, 05:27 PM

Lure her away with candy.

sanguinity · 11-01-2009, 06:34 PM

Groups of girls can be extremely intimidating, particularly when you are the only male. Find some wingmen, it makes you feel much less uncomfortable.

jasonInNy · 11-01-2009, 06:42 PM

^^^ Bad idea. The girl is really shy and my friends are all like 6'1" white kids. My friends are also d-bags and might try to take her for themselves.

I think what i'll do is probably try super super hard to catch her alone and strike up a conversation. If i can get her to be alone for 50 seconds max, I'll be able to friend her and then use standard methods.

generallyrong · 11-01-2009, 07:38 PM

Wow guys...

*cue meadow##*

jasonInNy · 11-01-2009, 07:47 PM

When you talk to a girl and ignore her friend, her friend gets super angry and jealous and becomes an "obstacle." This inconvenient Ho will screw your chances by pulling the girl you like away and influencing her opinions of you.

i have given this topic some thought and i figure i must get the girl i like alone.

Wartsandall · 11-01-2009, 08:20 PM

^Don't believe that. NONE of my friends are like that.

jasonInNy · 11-01-2009, 09:08 PM

Then your friends aren't very good friends.

If a random person started flirting with my friends, I'd tell them to back off.

Wartsandall · 11-01-2009, 09:12 PM

No, I mean none of my friends would get jealous if someone started becoming affiliated with one of them. They would probably support the other person.

aluminum_boat · 11-01-2009, 09:24 PM

Take a picture of yourself shirtless. Have a friend accidentally send it to her. Apologize to her. Use the conversation to ask her to chill. Chill with her. ****. Come back to cc and post results/pics