I was cheating on my boyfriend and the non-dominant boy I was going out with was also cheating on me with another girl. This girl never knew about me. Well, she found out about me and now she wants to fight and I don't know what to do. I want to fight her but I need advice and pointers.. what do I do? I do not think I am very violent but I do not want to be perceived as being a weakling for not fighting.