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A girl wants to fight me

HotIvyHotIvy - Posts: 163 Junior Member
edited May 2010 in High School Life
I was cheating on my boyfriend and the non-dominant boy I was going out with was also cheating on me with another girl. This girl never knew about me. Well, she found out about me and now she wants to fight and I don't know what to do. I want to fight her but I need advice and pointers.. what do I do? I do not think I am very violent but I do not want to be perceived as being a weakling for not fighting.

Advice please.
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Replies to: A girl wants to fight me

  • ChocolateBananaChocolateBanana Registered User Posts: 2,004 Junior Member
    Don't fight. Seriously.
  • fairy_dreamsfairy_dreams Registered User Posts: 3,377 Senior Member
    I'm not sure if I'm reading this correctly. So your boyfriend was cheating on you with another girl, and she found out about you and she wants to fight you and not him?

    I'm not going to say anything about the whole cheating situation, but it's probably better to avoid these situations in the first place :/

    Anyway, I would try to avoid this so called fight. She's probably going to scratch your face, punch/slap you, grab your hair, call you a *****/ho/etc, and shove you around. Of course you could do the same too, but that wouldn't be smart. These things get no where.

    And if you're worried about being perceived as a weakling, just remember that you'll most likely be known as the "*****y cat-fight girl" if you do accept this "fight".
  • andrewexdandrewexd Registered User Posts: 921 Member
    you deserve to get beat *****
  • HotIvyHotIvy - Posts: 163 Junior Member
    Yeah she wants to fight me, not him. I'm a lot bigger than her and I know I could win except I don't want to hurt her.

    The fight is supposed to be at the school playground on Tuesday right after the AP Statistics exam lets out so there are lots of people depending on this fight, but I really do not think I should show up. But if I don't show up to fight I don't want to be a weakling. But I don't want to "fight."
  • CALiforniahopeCALiforniahope Registered User Posts: 35 Junior Member
    please.... dont fight over a guy... is he really worth it?
  • bos4079bos4079 Registered User Posts: 130 Junior Member
    uhm, fighting is stupid and accomplishes nothing good. You should know this, grow up. Be the bigger person, who cares if people think you're a "weakling".
  • HotIvyHotIvy - Posts: 163 Junior Member
    ^^ I do not think we are fighting over him. She just wants to fight me because she is ticked off that I was with the same guy. I do not know why we are fighting, since I am not even mad at her.
  • ChocolateBananaChocolateBanana Registered User Posts: 2,004 Junior Member
    Don't fight. Who cares if someone thinks you are a "weakling?" Come on, now...this is like a bad episode of Full House.
  • HarveyLewisHarveyLewis Registered User Posts: 2,200 Junior Member
    If you're going to do it, charge money for tickets.
  • toxic93toxic93 Registered User Posts: 2,684 Senior Member
    Don't fight. If he cheated on you why are you and her fighting shouldn't the both of you be going against him? You know that saying two wrongs don't make a right.
  • trumpetgrltrumpetgrl - Posts: 4,005 Senior Member
    So, you were cheating with a guy who was cheating. Staying out of these situations in the first place would be nice.

    Don't fight. That is all.
  • xxsteelxxxxsteelxx Registered User Posts: 448 Member
    pay her 50 bucks. lol
  • afc10nsafc10ns Registered User Posts: 360 Member
    Toxic93 If she and the other girl got angry at the guy then that would be fairly hypocritical since she too is cheating.
  • toxic93toxic93 Registered User Posts: 2,684 Senior Member
    ^ohh... I can't belive I missed that one.
  • GrisamGrisam Registered User Posts: 2,007 Member
    If you're going to do it, charge money for tickets.

    This.

    Tsen Char
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