| I'd be careful about...
"my Cadet is wonderful because..."
"my Cadet is having problems with..."
"this isn't fair..."
"my Cadet's professor..."
"my Cadet's roommate..."
(Unless, of course, you are extolling the wonderful qualities of professor or roommate or sponsor family.)
Anything that might identify your cadet and MIGHT give the cadre fodder. My D posted something and the next day had a private message from an upperclassman asking "aren't you so and so..." She had given enough information about something that she was able to be identified. Wasn't a problem at all, but there might be circumstances where a posting could be misconstrued.
The message board is great for asking questions, learning the ins and outs, and keeping abreast of the latest developments. My Cadet calls it the "Mommy network." If you have a questions that might not be appropriate for the forum-at-large, send someone a private message and ask a question. I would like to believe that all of us would keep confidential questions confidential. I know I have PM'd one or two folks over the past year with concerns and those concerns have remained private.
I'm beginning year two; year one was full of excitement, disappointment, success, growing, and learning on my part and hers. |