I know it would be so wonderful to have someone say, "THIS program is great and THAT program is a little less so." But the reality is they are both truly fabulous programs, and I think Lulu63 is right. You just need to determine which one would be the place where you want to spend the next 4 years of your life.
We are in somewhat the same boat. D has received some wonderful acceptances, and we were struggling a bit with which one to choose. I woke up one morning and realized that I had been trying to determine which one was the "best" from among them and that in all honestly they are all GREAT! So once I let go of the notion that there was one true "BEST" program, I was able to relax and guide D to focus on other things, like which ones will best provide the experience she is looking to have and which ones we can best afford! That is making the decision so much easier.