That sucks about Seaside, but it is good to see that they're not closing permanently. It seems to be going around, actually. The Repertory company I've worked with on and off the past few years will also remain dark this summer because of funding cuts. I already had another gig lined up across town (Julie, "Jake's Women") before I heard, but it's always sad to see that.
It's also interesting to see the various advice given about whether to join AEA or not. It's definitely a very individual thing. The advice I've gotten is to avoid joining until I'm at least 25 and past the ingenue phase. I'm sort of a "tweener" type-wise - i.e. taller than the typical ingenue and too young for the meatier leads in the big venues which often go to celebs, anyway. Actually, I'm being told it would be better to go to LA after graduation with an eye towards joining SAG first if I go union at all. Then, as always, I'm "straight" and not MT.
As far as good paying jobs, I'm about to start the oh-so-traditional lunch waitress thing again ...