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Old 10-05-2009, 11:48 PM   #1
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Should I skip University and go for a two-year degree instead?

The reality is that I need to make about 40K a year to be happy, because I want a family and be able to provide for them should the unthinkable happen (I never get married, divorce, or death of a spouse). As someone on a tight budget, I'm beginning to realize that university is not easily possible for me, it would take me five or six years before I could graduate because I am only able to pay for so many classes at a time.

That would quite obviously put my ability to start a family sooner financially irresponsible. That is the most important thing in my life, moreso than my other dream: Being a storyteller in various mediums, such as novels, comics, and movies.

An English degree would benefit me of course, I have a lot to learn about crafting plots, but even though it would meet that 40K a year salary the debt I would face makes having a family more difficult. It would be a bad idea for me to have a child before 30, since I probably won't be making a decent income up until that point. And I am -okay- with going to college for "fun" after my kids move out of the house if I want to at that point, so I don't view it as if I can never go. There is just a part of me, right now, that thinks spending five to six years in college would be a waste of my time and money, delaying my actual dream longer than it would be necessary.

Which is why, quite honestly, I think I'm in the proper mindset for a two-year degree. To me having a family and living is more important than my dream of writing. I still plan to do it as a very productive and potentially lucrative hobby. In fact, if I won the lottery right now I'd drop out of college even if I WAS aiming for an English degree to pursue creative writing as a "job" and raising my family full time and getting involved with the community. I would probably go back to college later, or go part time if I went at all.

I think that alone says a lot about how I view college at my age. I know I can do it, I believe in my ability, but both financially and by goals it seems like... a waste of time for now.

Right now I attend community college (it would take me three years before I could get enough credits to transfer with an associates degree to the college down the street, and even then I'd have to take a semester or two off in-between to pay for other expenses). Sitting in on classes like First Aid and French, both really important classes, kind of makes me realize how many years I feel as if I'm wasting when it's not even my immediate goal. I could make the same amount of money and still do what I love (writing) on the side anyway (which was what I was going to do with my English degree, work and write on the side) and be financially capable to start a family sooner if I were to go for a two-year degree.

And quite a few two-year degrees look fulfilling and interesting. I really like the green degrees, retail management, and computer network operations. As you can imagine, I'm all over the place in what I could choose. And they all make about what I would want to make after college.

I'm not on track for any specific two-year degree right now, I started in mind with core credits for a transfer, so I could still go right on my way to an associate's for transfer. I think what I need help with is how to spend the next few months deciding on what I want to do: Do I transfer, or go for the two-year degree?

What sort of things should I think about in order to make this decision?
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Old 10-06-2009, 11:50 PM   #2
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I think you are making this decision a lot more complicated than it really is. Are you on a path to having a family anytime soon? How can you know what will happen in 2, 5, 10 years? Chose what feels right and will make you happy.

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An English degree would benefit me of course, I have a lot to learn about crafting plots, but even though it would meet that 40K a year salary the debt I would face makes having a family more difficult. It would be a bad idea for me to have a child before 30, since I probably won't be making a decent income up until that point.
1. Writing/storytelling will not guarantee a 40K salary.
2. Debt will not make having a family more difficult. You would make payments regardless.
3. Wouldn't a spouse also be contributing to the family?

People from a variety of background and careers successfully have families. Do what's best for YOU, not for what ifs of the future.
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Old 10-07-2009, 02:45 PM   #3
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I feel like your jumping 6 million miles into the future. Do you already have kids? If not, part of the "family dream" is responsibility, and the responsibility to provide for your family is number one.

Waiting 4-5 years for a college degree is definitely a step in the right direction. With an English degree you can teach and they make 38-42k depending on location.

You sound like you have some financial issues, have you applied for fafsa or any other aid?

Many states have guaranteed transfer option from community colleges to their state colleges, it will cut costs dramatically and if you want to stop at the associates level you can, but if you choose to continue that option is open as well.

hope this helps a little
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