I lived in the same town with my parents for 15+ years. Whenever my siblings came home with their family for the holidays, they always stayed with my parents (not with me). We have recently moved outside of the country, and we will be going back for Christmas, and so will my siblings. My parents have a large house, but it would be 15 of us in the house, all of our kids are young adults now. I would much prefer to stay at a nearby hotel, so I could have some privacy (bathroom). My parents are not happy about us not staying with them (5 days).
How would you feel if your grown children with their family prefer to stay at a hotel when visiting you?