I think I want to wear a shaper thingie or thingies under my dress for the wedding. I'm not of the disillusion that anything will make me look thin, but I feel I'd feel a bit better if my midriff was encased in something tight enough yet comfy. Have you guys ever done this? Any favorite brands or types or styles? Also I know pantyhose aren't popular right now, but I'm an older lady and I will have to wear them as well. I refuse to be bare legged. TIA!