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Old 10-05-2007, 11:42 AM   #17
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Admissions Process, Lessons Learned (cont.)

Before the Results, Who Has Regrets?
Before the Results, Who Has Regrets?

Buying a lottery ticket: A lesson from CC
Buying a lottery ticket: A lesson from CC

Great Advice from Admissions Officers
Great Advice from Admissions Officers

The "Best Graduates" Objective in College Admissions
The "Best Graduates" Objective in College Admissions

Malcolm Gladwell, College Admissions, and the Elite College Mystique
Malcolm Gladwell, College Admissions, and the Elite College Mystique

One-liners of Advice
One-liners of Advice

"Whoever has the most APs wins"
"Whoever has the most APs wins"

REFLECTION "I wish I would have known "this" when I started the process!"
REFLECTION "I wish I would have known "this" when I started the process!"

Problem with these "chances" threads and the self appointed experts
http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/...78#post2765878

Things not to do
Things not to do

*Qualified, but cut, what now?
Qualified, but cut, what now?

*Another one of Sybbie’s lists with frecklybecky’s story & jmmom’s suggestion to start “Lessons from the Trenches”

*Naviance
Naviance

*Epiphany’s experienced rationale for why top students on scattergrams might not be accepted

From the perspective of a student - to the parents
From the perspective of a student - to the parents

SAT/ACT Process

*Xiggi's SAT prep advice
Xiggi's SAT prep advice

*Xiggi and top SAT tutors discuss test prep strategies

SAT Strategy for admissions to colleges
SAT Strategy for admissions to colleges

A Retake on How Many Times to Take the SAT or ACT
A Retake on How Many Times to Take the SAT or ACT

*New SAT scores vs PSAT scores?
New SAT scores vs PSAT scores?

*1st-try "New SAT 1" score vs 2nd-try "New SAT 1" score?
1st-try "New SAT 1" score vs 2nd-try "New SAT 1" score?

*Papa Chicken’s statistical breakdowns:
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Old 10-05-2007, 11:43 AM   #18
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ECs & Activity Lists

What Extra Curricular Activities (ECs) Top Schools REALLY want
What Extra Curricular Activities (ECs) Top Schools REALLY want

Advice for meeting with College Counselor
Advice for meeting with College Counselor

Resumes: To Submit or Not to Submit?
Resumes: To Submit or Not to Submit?

Researching & Building a List

So how did you make your college list?
So how did you make your college list?

Ideas? Beginning the search..
Ideas? Beginning the search..
What does it mean to "love your safety"? What does it mean to "love your safety"?

Building Lists from the "Safety" on Beyond
Building Lists from the "Safety" on Beyond

Schools you wished your kid liked better
schools you wished your kid liked better

*Different way of looking at colleges
Different way of looking at colleges

*Carolyn’s interesting discussion on assessing student culture

So, What Does One Say To This?
So, What Does One Say To This?

Visiting Schools

Overnight Visit ... What to Expect
Overnight Visit ... What to Expect

*College visits - better for applicant to make arrangements?
College visits - better for applicant to make arrangements?

*Interesteddad’s thoughtful approach to visiting, particularly for smaller colleges

Contacting Admissions Officers
Contacting Admissions Officers

Interviewing

Interview Advice That You Should know About
Interview questions that you should know about

RD Interviews
RD Interviews

Son's FIRST alumni interview EVER...Need guidance!
Son's FIRST alumni interview EVER...Need guidance!

Application How to’s

Ideas for College Applications Organizer
Ideas for College Applications Organizer

App Nuts and Bolts -- If not Online, then how?
App Nuts and Bolts -- If not Online, then how?

Recommendations

Recommendation Etiquette
Recommendation Etiquette

What do you do when you are not sure what teachers will say?
What do you do when you are not sure what teachers will say?
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Old 10-05-2007, 11:44 AM   #19
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Essay Guidance

Next challenge - Essay
Next challenge - Essay

"Why (insert college here)" Essays?
" Why (insert college here)" Essays?

Writing the Essay: Sound Advice from an Expert
http://www.virginia.edu/undergradadm...gtheessay.html

Decisions

How did your son or daughter make his or her decision? Having trouble here....
How did your son or daughter make his or her decision? Having trouble here....

The sound of doors closing.....
The sound of doors closing.....

As deadlines approach
As deadlines approach

You did nothing wrong...
You did nothing wrong...

Financial Aid/Merit Concerns

Two easy fin aid traps for parents
Two easy fin aid traps for parents

*Leveraging Midwest LAC merit aid on the East Coast?
Leveraging Midwest LAC merit aid on the East Coast?

*Scottaa’s advice on phrasing a financial aid award appeal

Another Nail in the "Need-Blind" Coffin
Another Nail in the "Need-Blind" Coffin

Another tactic to boost admissions chances for the wealthy
Another tactic to boost admissions chances for the wealthy

*Hi Curmudgeon, ? about Rhodes
Hi Curmudgeon, ? about Rhodes

*Curmudgeon’s understanding of top merit qualifications

Logistics of the College Send Off

Advising College Students

Second Semester Blues
Second Semester Blues
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Old 10-05-2007, 11:49 AM   #20
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I have asked to mods to consider keeping your list with a "stickie". Your work is INCREDIBLE!! THANKS 3Ks!!!
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Old 10-05-2007, 01:36 PM   #21
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(Tip of the day: get a Booster Pac at Sears to jump start a car. According to the Triple A guy, you can get one at Sears for $50-60. It’s better than the standard battery charger that has to be plugged in for a length of time. It’s a portable, self-contained jump starter. Apparently it has more power than his truck to jump start a car.)

Thanks for starting this thread, Jym. I remember when Latetoschool talked about the importance of sharing what you know, and I felt compelled to organize my bookmarks to share. I do think there is value to the collective wisdom over time, and many new readers can benefit from the full conversation.

However, I do have a few hesitations in posting a list. IMO, the value of CC is the dynamic discussion. I remind new readers that a list is most helpful if it inspires new discussion and informs your own personal exploration. There is no single right way to approach admissions. In reading CC for a few years, I’ve learned that the consensus of posters and the admissions landscape does change over time.

So it is helpful to read the threads and query the current posters to see if your observations are still valid in light of current experience. Our family found CC to be invaluable for creating ideas. We learned, we developed hunches appropriate to our circumstances, and we took informed risks.

Happy searching. I’m off to my projects. -3Ks
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Old 10-05-2007, 02:38 PM   #22
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Well you have done an incredible job of keeping classic and valuable posts! I agree that active, real-time discussion is helpful, and opinions may change, but many of the pointers found here in these links are extremely helpful in an of themselves. And sometimes posting in, and reviving an old thread can reactivate a great, updated discussion. Thanks again for all your hard work. Hard to add to your comprehensive list.
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Old 10-05-2007, 06:54 PM   #23
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washdad recently started a thead on buying a suit I Bought My Kid a Suit Yesterday

here are some other threads onthe topic (including the "tux vs suit" debate)

Buying a Tuxedo
First suit - advice needed!
Differences between Tuxedos and Suits
What do you wear to a semi-formal dance/ party?
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Old 10-06-2007, 11:22 AM   #24
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woohoo, 3k's!! Your incredible list warranted this thread bieing "stickied" for all posterity! Great job!
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Old 10-06-2007, 11:45 AM   #25
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What a wonderful service!

How many times have I *known* that some topic had been covered beautifully here, but couldn't find the right words to search it?

Really helpful. Thanks to all of you who "did the work."
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Old 10-06-2007, 12:10 PM   #26
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jmmom--
I think 3k's deserves most of the credit-- and I hope people will continue to post links in groups by topic. Another topic I thought of is " Best places to stay in ______ (fill in the city)"
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Old 10-29-2007, 11:49 AM   #28
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Gosh. I looked so young in those threads.
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Old 10-30-2007, 09:34 PM   #30
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^^ Good one, jym. That comes up *a lot.*
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