Also not in New England (but will
feel like New England in winter

) is U. of Rochester, which does have merit aid, as well as strong sciences, engineering, and a wide range of cross-registration options with neighboring Eastman School of Music.
We live in Western MA, too.

Driving from here to Rochester (which is a kind of appealing small city, IMO) isn't a bad trip, at least during the snow-free seasons .. definitely better than fighting the traffic fray on I-95 and in the CT/NY/NJ/PA corridor.