| My kid is on his 3rd year and still doesn't know what to do!
My son goes to a large (46K students) university and is starting his 3rd year. He started as a Zoology major, thinking that he would go on to Veterinary school. He's very capable and intelligent but he keeps failing some of his science classes and his GPA is now a 2.0. College has been a tough adjustment for him from the beginning. First, he battled homesickness and depression. He was losing weight, not sleeping, and generally miserable. I took him to counseling, he joined an intramural sports team, met a few friends, they rented a house together and things started looking up, although he still had doubts about his chosen major and had to go to General Studies since he couldn't remain in the College of Science with such a low GPA.
Three weeks into the new school year, his roommates got arrested for dealing drugs and are now awaiting trial. Needless to say, that threw him into a tailspin. Now he's not only questioning his choice of friends, college and major, but he will have to move again and try to make new friends. He wants to switch majors to Psych but is having trouble connecting with a good career counselor at school to help him find direction.
I'm afraid he's going to throw in the towel one of these days and I'm trying desperately to help him. Any advice out there?
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