My girlfriend will be attending UCSB as a freshman in September and will be living in a dorm (not sure which one yet). I will be attending SBCC as a freshman and I am curious about how strict the rules are about boys and girls? Would it be okay for me to occasionally sleep over in her room? Can I even be there at all? Whats the deal with dorms and girls and boys and all that kinda stuff...?
Also, what do you think of SBCC and UCSB relationships? Is that pretty normal? How does that all work out?