| I can understand why your son is having a hard time making a decision. Both are very good schools in fun areas.
My son is transferring from UM after 2 years. It's not that he didn't enjoy UM, because he did, but I think he is ready for a change. He just can't see spending all 4 of his college years there and with weighing out all the factors decided to go to a NY state school.
UM has it's pros and cons. He loved the weather and made really good use of the wellness center and the outdoors. I think he will miss that. I think he will also miss the school spirit, since UM students have a great deal of pride. He will also miss the division 1 sports. He made some really nice friends and met people from all over the world. UM is very diverse. He enjoyed the majority of his classes, although he didn't like that he had to double major being in the Comm school. However, he has told me that they will be phasing that out. I think the main problem he sees is that there are a great deal of students who are quite intense and superficial. Since he is basically very laid back and down to earth, this has been a problem. He was able to find others whose company he enjoys, however, it took a while to find them. He will miss those people but in general many of the friendships at UM tend to be more on the surface. He has heard this same sentiment from others at the University that have also been thinking of transferring out or those he knows that already have. I guess it depends on the kind of person you are. He is also not into the clubbing scene and it is a big thing at UM.
I wish your son the best of luck in his decision. |