vinceh

It's only been one set of exams. There's still 5 weeks left to turn things around, why not see how he responds to the challenge?

I have mixed feelings about your husband's approach. I agree that your son is making his own bed and the best lesson is to let him lie in it, but it seems a bit extreme to pull the plug on a high school 3.9 after only 3 1/2 months of college. I suspect that even though your son is "independent", he's probably at least considering your suggestions. I assume USC has some sort of process for academic probation, I'd find out what it is, just in case. I would hope that getting a letter from the Registrar saying you aren't performing up to minimum standards will give him incentive to seek out help.

doame

I agree that "pulling the plug" after one semester seems a bit harsh. Often, we don't even realize we're off course until we see that first sign that makes us aware we've blown it! .... and your son sure must be getting the message now. This is such a common problem - and USC offers so many avenues for help.

These first grades will hopefully be a bucket of ice-cold water in your boy's face. It sounds like he's smart enough to see how much he's got to lose. I'd bet a frank conversation about the harsh realities will help him get back on track.

Best of luck to you...