I love this site and this is my first post after lots of useful lurking! So, S (sport=track) is being recruited by an Ivy that is his first choice (not an HYP) and heads there for his first official visit in a week or so. Coach has said that if S thinks its a fit they'll ask him to commit and apply ED and they'll go to admissions, say they're supporting his application and ask for a likely letter. All good. great, in fact. But the price is still steep, not prohibitive but definitely forbidding. And meanwhile, a very good Patriot League school has invited S to an official visit, as well. Question is, should we accept the Patriot League OV too and go there as well just to keep our options open even if S has already, the week before, commited to Ivy, just in case the LL doesn't come through or whatever else that could goes wrong? Or is that playing behind the Ivy coach's back etc.? Help!