I'm just wondering how to get over this situation and move on. I'll keep it short. I really liked this one girl, and I was into her for several months. There was literally a long list of things I liked about her, and I can honestly say that I liked her more than anyone else in my past (including past girlfriends).
In December, I finally told her how I felt and asked her out. She said that it was a nice gesture but ended up saying no and we've just stayed friends. Which wasn't THAT big of a deal.
However, a couple weeks later (early Jan), another guy asked her out, and she said yes. They started going out, and I believe that they are officially together now. Now this really got me down. I had so many questions after that.
What does he have that I don't have? If its looks, why do I have to have inferior looks? It's totally not fair. What did he do right that I didn't? What did I do wrong that he didn't? What flaws do I have that he doesn't? Why is he better than me?
These questions have really been eating me up inside, and I cannot get over it. More than being turned down, these questions have affected me the most. Basically, instead of me being with her, someone else is holding her hand, going on dates with her, kissing her, getting to talk to her, etc.
Basically, I just want advice on how to get over this and move on. It's really affected me and I don't know what to do.