I am new on this site but here goes. I am not happy at my current school because it is too small and does not offer all that I want to do. I honestly went to this school because my parents wanted me too and now am going to transfer during the spring (they are supportive of me transferring and all). I am currently a freshman and am out-of-state so I miss my home and all. There are two schools that I am looking at, let's call them college A and college B. Both of these schools have what I want such as a marching band, great biology program, Japanese, etc. College A is the college I am leaning too because of having what I want and being a nicer campus/nice community area, but the catch is that my boyfriend currently goes there (college A). I admit, having my boyfriend go to the same college would be nice but I am worried that things will change greatly between us when I go to the school. It kind of sucks because I like the school a lot that I wish my boyfriend didn't go to the school so that I didn't have to worry about people saying that I went to the school because of him (which is not entirely true). It is one of those schools that if we broke up before I transferred, I would still go to the school regardless of my "ex" being there. I am just worried that I say this stuff and am influenced the thought of being with my boyfriend and will secretly regret it once I get there. I am really trying to avoid the whole "don't let a boy influence your life" So I just want to know if I should still go to college A and deal with what would come with it such as possible break up and all or if I should go to college B to avoid all of those possibilities but not go to my first college choice (because it sounds like a perfect school for me).