In many events and student organizations that I have joined, the hosts or the organizers seemed to think that they were doing us a favor or being considerate by putting people of the same ethnicities, or cultural backgrounds together in the same group, in the event of some group activities. I am Chinese. And I don't know how many times I found myself in the only group with international or Asian students. I don't like this arrangement at all. In fact, I ****ing hate it with a passion. Why can they promote diversity by mixing us with other people. Did they think that I would feel somehow more connected if I had someone to relate to? Well the truth is that I feel very excluded when being put in this situation.