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Are you guys in relationships?

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Replies to: Are you guys in relationships?

  • AngelDarkmistAngelDarkmist Registered User Posts: 4 New Member
    Well I'm a little late to the post even if it's still active. I was in one three months ago, it had lasted around eight months, and sometimes it's hard to think about her. I don't know why, but there are times when I think about her, I'm completely fine, but other times, I feel like crying. Don't plan to be in another relationship anytime soon, because for about a month or two after the breakup, I got so depressed/upset/whichever that I couldn't eat.
  • Buggie111Buggie111 Registered User Posts: 582 Member
    I liked this one girl freshman year. Her looks were stunning, sharp as a whip (she was with me in our pre-IB program), and played varsity volleyball freshman year. I manned up and asked her to homecoming, and she accepted. It turned out, however, that another kid, a rich, WASPy, Johnny Manziel wannabee also wanted her, and wanted her bad. I narrowly avoided a scuffle at the dance, and started getting a flood of bullying, name-calling, public humiliation, even death threats, after that, which really f'ed up my freshman year grades. The school administration was too lazy to respond. Needless to say, I got out of there and haven't been in a relationship or even wanted to since.

    (Postscript: It turns out the girl was LDS. That jock is, purportedly, getting the "You don't exist" treatment from her. Girl's got her head on straight.)
  • CamilouiseeCamilouisee Registered User Posts: 208 Junior Member
    I've been in a relationship with an amazing guy for close to 9 months now. We started dating near the end of freshmen year & it's been the best 9 months of my life
  • BigOto2BigOto2 Registered User Posts: 29 New Member
    Lol nope. I don't really have any "crushes" because not many girls at my school prefer science or math and are mature enough, both of which are requirements for me oddly enough.
  • elf4EVAelf4EVA Registered User Posts: 1,592 Senior Member
    What are boys? What's a relationship?

    All jokes aside, I've never been in a serious relationship. My parents will let me date once I get into college though, so basically second semester senior year onward.
  • LaDiDaDaLaDiDaLaDiDaDaLaDiDa Registered User Posts: 173 Junior Member
    The only time guys ever approach me is when they did not do their math homework or if they are having trouble with solution stoichiometry and gas laws. #singlebecauseiamthebestsongonthealbum
  • TeamRocketGruntTeamRocketGrunt Registered User Posts: 1,464 Senior Member
    The girls at my school are actually kind of...unintelligent and/or slutty. Fairly certain most of them have slept with half the football team. I have yet to meet an intelligent girl at my school whom I like. I know a girl in another state whom I talk to through social media, and I actually kind of like her.
  • TheAtlanticTheAtlantic Registered User Posts: 1,973 Senior Member
    ^ That post screams bitterness.
    Calling 26%+ of your student body sluts....
  • elf4EVAelf4EVA Registered User Posts: 1,592 Senior Member
    @LaDiDaDaLaDiDa Story of my LIFE. That's basically why I have friends too :P
  • wcao9311wcao9311 Registered User Posts: 934 Member
    @TheAtlantic maybe 26% of the student body are sluts, we don't go to his school.
  • LBad96LBad96 Registered User Posts: 3,499 Senior Member
    Nope. I've never had one, and I'm coming up on the midway point of junior year. I was always rejected in middle school. When I got to high school, I began to completely distance myself from the girls in my grade. I now prefer any girl between the ages of 15-19. I've come to the conclusion that while I certainly don't need a girlfriend, it would be pretty nice to have my first one at this point. However, I'm moving 30 minutes away within the next month or two, so I might as well just wait until college for a serious relationship anyways.

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  • happyramenhappyramen Registered User Posts: 128 Junior Member
    I'm a college male freshman engineer and I went through high school socializing and talking to hundreds of guys, but probably less than 20 girls around my age in those 4 years. I'm too cool and busy to have a relationship and didn't wanna hurt anyone's feelings. Plus, even being in college now, I have yet to find that perfect someone.
  • donaldb040donaldb040 Registered User Posts: 80 Junior Member
    I'm in a relationship right now and I'm really enjoying it. With all the first quarter stress that comes with schoolwork, work, scholarship essays and college applications Laurie came really in handy, haha. Nah, I love my girlfriend and I'm willing to commit since we're both going to be in Providence next year (Me at Brown and her at Providence College)
  • RandomRhinoRandomRhino Registered User Posts: 160 Junior Member
    LOL nope. My relationship for me, it's just plain easier that way.
  • unlikelyunlikely Registered User Posts: 37 Junior Member
    i almost dated a guy? that's such a weird relationship to have with someone tbh but no i've never been in a real relationship.
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