So, we are probably looking at a public university for my daughter. Is it a given that dorm life is going to have (what I consider) a high level of "trashy" behavior - - kids sleeping around (in the dorm rooms with roommates present?!) / drinking / partying? What do other conservative families / parents do - - just have their kid live at home? Our local schools aren't that academically great - - but we are considering it, because dorm life seems so over-rated / expensive.