My middle D is getting married in May. I am officiating (I am ordained clergy). For most weddings I wear a dark grey suit (not in a tradition that wears robes) but for this wedding I'm the MOB too. For her sister's wedding I found a nice neutral suit that went with the style of the wedding, but it was a very informal wedding I'm having more trouble this time. The colors are watermelon and eucalyptus and the bridesmaids are wearing a cream floral dress in those tones. Neither their dresses nor the bride's have lace or much embellishment. I'm not svelte (size 16) but tall. I had a vision of a soft dress with a jacket in a eucalyptus shade but that doesn't seem to be in fashion right now and everything that is dressy seems to have lace or sequins.The guys are wearing grey.
So far this is the closest to what I had in mind but it has all that glitter and lace.https://drapers.blair.com/p/scallop-lace-t-length-dress-by-alex-evenings/169186.uts?q=jacket+dresses&count=500&rank=rank17&is=Y&page=5&store=17&keyword=jacket+dresses&intl=n
If you were both MOB and officiant what would you wear for a semi-formal wedding? Does it matter?