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Am I deserting my friends?

So I will be taking this girl to prom. Who happens to sit at lunch at a table of her other girl friends. Usually I sit at a table with my guy friends. We don't really "cross-over" much at all, with the exception of myself and one other.
So here is my lame situation ahahahaha. Since I don't get to see my prom date really at all during school, I don't want to make my asking be like a hit-and-run and not talk to her for a month until the prom or something. However, if I were to join them during lunch, I would effectively be physically distancing myself from my friends. Would such a distancing be worth it?
6 repliesSo here is my lame situation ahahahaha. Since I don't get to see my prom date really at all during school, I don't want to make my asking be like a hit-and-run and not talk to her for a month until the prom or something. However, if I were to join them during lunch, I would effectively be physically distancing myself from my friends. Would such a distancing be worth it?
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Replies to: Am I deserting my friends?
They'll understand, and probably make fun of you and encourage you.
but then like... don't abandon them all together...if you don't have classes with them then just sit at one table one day and the other the next...problem solved
so yeah, if shes good looking and you considering actually going out with her...then yeah its worth it...i would worry more about how my friends would make fun of me.
just make sure to keep on hanging out with your guy friends. i'm sure they'll understand... especially if they too want prom dates.