HOWEVER, the day D1 graduated from kindergarten, hubby was in charge of dressing D2, which he did -- beautifully. However, when she twirled around in the auditorium to show off her pretty dress, her missing underpants were very evident. But I've done some doozies, as well. It's not because dads are incompetent, it's just that we're all human. And tired.
And on that note - is it not foolish to pursue a relationship with someone with who you have such fundamental disagreements? Maybe I'm too technical/INTJ-ish or something.