Was unable to find the late bloomer thread from a few years ago-so I thought we should update the discussion to see how our kids are doing now.
S1 just turned 21 (18 than) and just broke up with his first "real" girlfriend. He had one in HS and one sophomore year of college for ~2.5 months each (one lasted from march to end of may in HS, and one went from fall break to winter break freshman year) this last one lasted 7 months(Halloween to mid June). He is going to be a senior and is taking a break from dating until he is on his own after graduating. He is a bit broken up-pun intended. Says he is a little worried about not having a ton of experience-was very shy-wiry and small in HS. Has come into his own during college-tons of friends and good grades-and much better with girls. I worry about him worrying himself into a hole about this.
S2 is 19 and is a square as they come, very quiet and respectful-has no problem attracting female attention(by far the better looking of the two) but not very social. He is just starting out, so he still has time, even though S2 is more serious and focused than 1-(1 has a 3.3-2 has a 4.0) he doesn't put in effort and connect emotionally with 1. Much more reserved about his feelings.
Anyway, I wanted to see how others kids are doing in this arena. I'm not worried about either particularly-but just wanted some reassurance