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To move or not to move - need advice

collegeandicollegeandi 194 replies3 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 197 Junior Member
We are currently residing in SoCal. My D is a straight A freshman in HS. She is also an editor for her school magazine, member of the school robotics team participating in many contests as well as a chairperson in couple of other Honors Society clubs. She is interested in Engineering and has a demonstrated interest in Computer Science.

We are considering a voluntary move to Houston, based on some easing of travel for H, comparable employment opportunities and more affordable houses. However, a comparison of options for D’s higher education including good plans A and B is making the decision difficult.

While assessing well-recognized public Engineering School options in both states, Texas has UTA, TAMU and UTD while California has a long list starting with Cal. We are unlikely to qualify for need based financial aid and will not be able afford private universities like Rice or USC/CalTech.

While well recognized CSUs act as a good plan B in California after the UCs, I could not find any such option in or near Texas. Am I missing any options in Texas ? Also, D's established leadership roles may be lost if we move.

Considering all of the above, as well as any Texas options I may be missing, will it be wise to move to Houston?
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  • carachel2carachel2 2952 replies23 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 2,975 Senior Member
    You are missing Texas Tech. So with Texas A&M, UT and Texas Tech you have three big powerhouse schools. Then under those you have one elite private school: Rice. SMU, TCU and Baylor add into that mix as well but they are privates. So no...we don't have a lot of smaller schools, we have about four big monster schools!

    Because of the automatic admissions to the two main universities, the ranking game in Texas is intense. There are parents who start in jr. high trying to figure out how to game the system by taking PE credits in the summer, online, etc. We had no idea! My Ds varsity level orchestra class (the top out of SIX orchestras at the school) was not a weighted class and she could not GPA exempt it...so it actually brought her class rank down for two years.

    There ARE some very good, highly competitive schools *outside* of Houston: Kingwood School District and the Cypress Fairbanks school district are the main two I can think of but I'm sure others will chime in. If you want to live IN Houston then you will need to look at privates or magnet schools. The traffic is *horrendous* and it is a large stinky crowded hot humid city..I can't imagine why anyone would want to live in the city limits. Most people commute from Kingwood, etc.

    Your daughter sounds very much hooked and engaged into her school. It might be very difficult for her to move in and find her way. On the other hand, she sounds so well rounded I have no doubt she will be able to make friends and and get involved. Living near Houston could give her a lot of amazing opportunities for summer programs with Rice, robotics competitions, etc. And NASA!? It would be right up the road!

    What does she say about the move when you talk to her? Does the move need to happen right now or is there some flexibility?

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  • zobrowardzobroward 3740 replies193 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 3,933 Senior Member
    many people have fled from California for greener pastures to places like az,nc,floirda and of course texas. texas has many great public and private colleges/universities. texas also has excellent public high schools.(not all schools...just like in California) I would not hesitate to move if it benefits your family. the moving trucks head out from California full and return empty (the flow is one direction) there is a reason.
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  • carachel2carachel2 2952 replies23 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 2,975 Senior Member
    Also...are you set on Houston? There are many other areas with amazing schools (which will also be crazy competitive) that may be more pleasant to live. Austin and Frisco/McKinney areas come to mind.
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  • piesquaredpiesquared 175 replies0 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 175 Junior Member
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    "The traffic is *horrendous* and it is a large stinky crowded hot humid city..I can't imagine why anyone would want to live in the city limits. Most people commute from Kingwood, etc."

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    This is hysterical and very untrue. Lots of normal people live inside the city limits. Millions of people in fact. We've done it and managed to have a more-than-decent quality of life and somehow even send a well-prepared public-school educated kid to college. I personally find the traffic horrid out in the suburbs as those master-planned communities make everyone wind around the same way and then end up on the same roads.

    Feel free to PM me and I'll give you some scoop on Houston schools. We've survived multiple magnet lotteries within the district.

    And yes, it can be uncomfortable in the hot humid summers but Houston kind of grows on you. There's a sort of can-do spirit that has its own charms. We're all in it together.
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  • carachel2carachel2 2952 replies23 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 2,975 Senior Member
    edited April 2016
    Well it's true for me. Granted, I don't live there. Visited many many times and we have friends who live there. The thought of living IN Houston makes me shudder. It is wicked wet dank humidity. I hate the city. The friends who live there say it's private school or magnet schools or nothing. I would imagine the magnet schools are great

    Anyone can live anywhere and make the best of it I'm sure. Would I *choose* to live in Houston? No. I would not. There are amazing opportunities in Houston no doubt. But lots of Texans refer to Houston as "the armpit of Texas" so I'm pretty sure I'm not alone.

    I do agree with you about the traffic from the suburbs. Looking at it from that aspect only it would probably be better to not have to battle that out in a daily basis.

    Also.. Please note that I did highlight the potential benefits of living in Houston with Rice and NASA so close. So I didn't completely bash the city. It sounds like you have made the best of it. Honestly, if I had an open option to choose where I would love I would not pick my current area either.
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  • piesquaredpiesquared 175 replies0 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 175 Junior Member
    Well my point was more that Houston has quiet charms and it grows on you. I always say it's not a great place to visit but it is a good place to live. I've never actually heard it referred to as the armpit of Texas but I guess we are geographically if nothing else.

    We personally live in a neighborhood with decent sized homes (not the giant ones) on appropriately sized lots. So lots of live oak trees and green space. The low cost of living (and no state income taxes, although we do have high property tax and sales tax) makes for a high quality of life.

    My neighborhood itself is very walkable but if I could change one big thing it would be a better public transit system and a more walkable city in general. Those are definitely deficits.
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  • carachel2carachel2 2952 replies23 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 2,975 Senior Member
    @anomander Most Californians seem to feel the most home in Austin ;)

    I'll have to check out those links.
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  • HighburyHighbury 319 replies6 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 325 Member
    One of the reasons you cite for the move in your original post is affordability of housing. If you were modest in your Texas housing choices could it possibly afford you the opportunity to be full pay at privates? When we moved from the Northeast to North Carolina we were able to buy a nicer house at over 100,000 less the price. We could have bought a really fancy house, but instead earmarked that extra money for our kids educations. If you only have one child this could be an option for you. But then again, not everyone care to pay full sticker price - I understand that.
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  • inspiration12inspiration12 156 replies3 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 159 Junior Member
    OP is asking about higher education in terms of being a state resident. In that regard, there are fantastic engineering schools in Texas, just like in California. The tuition cost will be less in Texas, if that's a factor. The top 10% rule (varies for UT) should be known to the OP as far as automatic admission to public universities. Some suburban areas with strong high schools include The Woodlands, Cypress Fairbanks, Katy, Kingwood and Sugarland, if outside the city is a consideration.

    I am from the Pacific NW (which I love), and have lived near Houston for many years, but I find the city a fun place to go with all the parks, trees, theater, shopping, and restaurants, along with a invigorating diverse population. Downtown might not be my first choice as a retirement spot (although there are many areas where you would never know you are in a large city), but I (and my husband) sure have had ample job opportunities and the lower cost of living is hard to beat.
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  • KnittergirrlKnittergirrl 212 replies8 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 220 Junior Member
    I moved from the DC area to Houston immediately after finishing my senior year of high school because my parent's job moved there. I disagree that Houston is 'the armpit of Texas.' Sure, there are some bad areas, just like in any other city, but there are also plenty of really nice areas. I have a few friends from the area, all of whom were educated either at private schools or in the huge high schools in the suburbs (like the Woodlands). I live near Lamar High School, which has an IB program that qualified students can do. From what I've heard, it to some degree separates the more high-achieving students from what might be considered the 'rougher' crowd of the school. If your daughter was to enroll in a program like this, I suspect that she would do just fine and be able to go to college just as prepared as anyone else, plus get the experience of being in a diverse school.

    I really did not like the atmosphere of the area I grew up in. It was pretentious and homogenous. While I loved the cultural opportunities and restaurants and such that the DC area had to offer, my suburb was not to my taste at all. I was looking forward to going to college and to moving. I really like the area of Houston I live in now. It's liberal and there are a lot of things within close distance. I can walk to nice cafes and shops and most things are no more than a fifteen minute drive away.

    If your daughter is attached to her high school and enjoys living where you currently live, then I don't really see the need to move to Houston (or any other place). But if that's not the case, then I think moving could be a good experience.
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  • carachel2carachel2 2952 replies23 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 2,975 Senior Member
    Just to clarify... The "armpit" comment refers mostly to the warm and humid weather of Houston.
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  • collegeandicollegeandi 194 replies3 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 197 Junior Member
    Thanks everyone for the great, detailed insights, am still going through all the links.

    I had missed listing Texas Tech.

    Transfer students being subjected to potential GPA adjustment in Texas is a good input, will research that. My D has taken rigorous courses in her school and I would certainly not like to have part of her GPA lost in translation !

    We have discussed this potential move with her and she is OK with the idea but I would not like her to lose any significant achievements or potential opportunities. We had considered Austin, DFW areas as well but greater Houston seemed to be a better option especially as mentioned above with the proximity to NASA etc. I have a younger S too so private colleges may not really be an option even if we save on the cost of our house.

    We are considering the Katy/Cinco Ranch area, recent reports of severe weather there have scared us, though :-) - should it be a real concern ?

    Another key area of consideration is getting admission into a desired Engineering major in the 4 key UT schools and fallback/safety options. Inputs from members who underwent this experience would be greatly appreciated !
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  • inspiration12inspiration12 156 replies3 discussionsRegistered User Posts: 159 Junior Member
    Well, it's going to be warm and humid in many places in the South during the summer - just the way it is...
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