Hi- seeking advice to help prepare/support my high functioning asperger's child before and during college. He has applied ED to an Ivy league school, but if he doesn't get in his second choice is RIT which truthfully might be better for him anyway. He is incredibly smart, but has many of the traits of Aspererger's kids: social anxiety and withdrawal, issues with motivation, self-care, cannot seem to wake himself up for school, etc. His grades have been all over the place in high school despite his ability (he got a 1590 on the SAT without studying), but this semester he is getting straight A's without parental involvement on the homework side. Still, I worry about him going to college and never leaving his room to be with friends (he rarely leaves out house except for school); his ability to co-exist with a roommate (he doesn't seem able to regularly take showers or clean his room) and wake up for classes.
Are there any parents out there who have been there/done that and can give me advice on how to prepare him before he leaves?