I don't think the main concern is partying. It's about the secrecy and the social pressure to conform to an attitude of misogyny, racism and homophobia.
He says that when you go there on big event weekends the Greek alumni behave worse than the students.
Obviously all frats are not the same, but as a group, they are different than other campus organizations. Can you name another campus group with 30 hazing deaths in the last 5 years?
Yeah, I'm surprised we made it to page 3 without someone pulling out that old, banal trope.
Stating the obvious but charitable money gets raised ALL the time without Greek involvement.
Belittling the concerns over bad behavior of these orgs is what I don't get.
Your post #8 I would deem belittling of the situation:
"Yawn. So statements by students in a private meeting who are no longer there are "offensive." Nobody keeps meeting minutes like that. They don't even have a Greek system -- it's like two houses, which aren't even houses. Time to go back to class."
Can you name another campus group with 30 hazing deaths in the last 5 years?