Now that the moment of truth approaches, the big question is how to handle the process as a family. My D wants to see everything first. I had figured that my wife and I would learn the results and then present them with any necessary diplomacy, encouragement, enthusiasm that might be warranted. THEN, assuming that results are positive and there are high quality choices, how do we handle the discussion? I figured we might set up a "scoring grid" and evaluate the schools quantitatively before deciding which if any revisits to do. Maybe this is bureaucratic, but the decision is important and a huge amount of work has gone into being accepted at a variety of schools in the first place. THOUGHTS?