@ClassicRockerDad We'll agree to disagree. The daughter committed to a university. Then at the last minute changed her mind and switched to this school. The daughter committed to a job at summer camp. Then at the last minute, left them high and dry and decided she is going to take classes. But then just takes one class and has no job for spending money. This with three or four major changes. The only thing that seems certain is change. How much money would you put on the line?
I strongly agree with @austinmshauri . If there was a refusal to discuss this issue like an adult, there would be no more funding. Families have limited resources. She does not seem mature enough right now for such a large investment. Some time off to regroup night be the best.