My college counselor told me that one of the colleges I applied to referred to me as a “courtesy defer” applicant. What does this mean, and is it good or bad? Thanks.
How do they know? It obviously doesn't say we are offering you a "deferment but really mean rejection." Is the GC's opinion? Or did they have discussions with the AO at the University and was told that?
In itself a defer isn't bad. After all, they'll re-review your app in the full pool. "Courtesy" doesn't tell enough, what else did your counselor say? Without knowing the college and your details, we'd only be speculating.
It could just be the GC's way of saying, "Even though you are deferred, you aren't getting in." Some schools *cough* UChicago *cough* end up not only deferring thousands of student, but then they waitlist a huge number, too.
@PetraMC: I guess...but IMO, you can drop hints in other ways than saying you were a "courtesy defer". There is no upside of telling a kid that — at least the way I look at things. That's like saying "Oh, they just did that to be nice." How does that help anyone?!? Just tell the kid to move on.
The CC said they didn't know and it didn't sound great but mentioned a time where another student who was called a "courtesy waitlist" was let in quickly off it. I am a legacy at the school.
Normally I'd say you aren't getting into that school. They deferred you instead of rejecting you to avoid annoying your parents/grandparents who attended the school. You can certainly express interest and send along any updates you have to accomplishments. But I'd make the assumption that you probably aren't getting in, and move on to focus on your other choices.
I still wonder where the term "courtesy" came from. Was it the counselor's interpretation or the adcom told her? Defer isn't generally like waitlist (which does send diferent messages, depending.)
Is there a legit reason for the GC to discourage you? Eg, your app isn't up to this school's standards and she doesn't want you to over focus on this one college? Because defer can simply mean they want to re-review you. There's too much we don't know. Were others from your hs accepted?
I'm not one to falsely encourage. But withot more info, we're assuming.
Don't assume legacy means an auto admit or no chance at all. At this point, all we know is legacy, not one iota more, no stats, ECs, or even the tier of college.) OP may be good, but borderline, not enough for an Early admit but still in play. Or this may be a misfire, he's reaching past his grasp. The caginess makes me wonder.
Now he/she says the GC has used the term for another kid, as well. It may be the GC assuming "courtesy." We don't even know what sort of hs this is, whether the type where an adcom would describe a defer that way to a counselor. It's rare for an adcom to say that. And this GC seems to have at least two kids she heard this about. Really?
Something is lost in translation. If OP gave more detail, we'd have a better idea. Now that's up to OP.
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Just Curious.
Also why would a college counselor tell an applicant this info?
Is there a legit reason for the GC to discourage you? Eg, your app isn't up to this school's standards and she doesn't want you to over focus on this one college? Because defer can simply mean they want to re-review you. There's too much we don't know. Were others from your hs accepted?
I'm not one to falsely encourage. But withot more info, we're assuming.
Now he/she says the GC has used the term for another kid, as well. It may be the GC assuming "courtesy." We don't even know what sort of hs this is, whether the type where an adcom would describe a defer that way to a counselor. It's rare for an adcom to say that. And this GC seems to have at least two kids she heard this about. Really?
Something is lost in translation. If OP gave more detail, we'd have a better idea. Now that's up to OP.