5 year old on the spectrum, where should Mom begin?

lookingforward
Wed, 13 Apr 2011 14:02:30 +0000

I agree with Thumper and all her supporters. I would like to simply add a thought. Yes, it is possible that some 5 y.o. behaviors fall within the broad range which are “normal” at that stage of development. Yes, it is possible some bright (or gifted) kids are so bored in pre-K that they act out. But, if a child does have early signs of a disorder for which he could obtain help, FGS, get him seen by some pro who can monitor and advise. IMO, this often means more than the pediatrician.

We had a similar situation with my dau, at four. My advice: don’t let anyone’s “happy ending” tale reassure you to the point of ignoring valid concerns. It takes extraordinary committment, savvy and detached observation to assess your own kid. By all means, get a good child therapist involved. IME, if they feel the kid is “within range,” they will let you know. Good luck.