A Message to Those Disappointed

varyag
Tue, 11 Mar 2014 01:46:50 +0000

As someone who has applied for three years in a row, I can assure you that a rejection or even a wait list is not the end of the world, nor is it a reason to be discouraged. Your disappointment is warranted and fair, and if you feel the need to, take a little while to relax but do not mull over “paradise lost”; you will only become better and stronger through this process. I received six rejections prior to this year; last year, I decided to not apply again. Surprisingly enough, this September I realized that I miss the process and decided to do it again just for the sake of putting in the effort and knowing that I did all I could towards achieving a given goal. This year, I achieved it (keep in mind that it is the third year); my piece of advice to you is to be persistent and to not give up.
You all are great applicants each with your own assets and advantages; maybe it just didn’t work this year. These circumstances are out of control, but you can always try. Having a healthy enthusiasm is wonderful and makes this whole, arduous process so much easier.
All I can do now is wish you all the best of luck in all of your future endeavors!