Adult ADD

momma-three
Thu, 12 May 2011 11:12:58 +0000

ADD is one of those disorders that are so misunderstood. The person with ADD as you know is dealing with (or not dealing with) so many different issues that impact their social and emotional life. I have seen how ADD will negatively impact a persons ability to move forward in positive ways but after years of seeing this I have come to realize that until the person is so negatively impacted they will do nothing to change. Since this is your husband and not your child there is little I can offer in terms of how you could seperate yourself from the impact he is having on your emotional and financial life. This you will need to judge on your own. It is not easy being married to someone with ADD because the non affected party tends to take on far more responsibility than the partner with ADD.