Advice for son who does not care about grades

dmd77
Sat, 06 Mar 2010 10:42:27 +0000

Bogibogi: one other thing. Your son is probably not lazy. Uninterested, yes. Lazy, no. Does he work hard and intensely on anything? Then he’s not lazy.

Very few of us put the same intensity into everything they do. I am hard pressed to imagine doing laundry with the same intensity I put into my dog agility training. I don’t think that makes me “lazy” about laundry; I think it makes me uninterested in laundry. I get it done… but not particularly well.