Advice on a fraternity

Trisherella
Sat, 23 Dec 2017 05:59:05 +0000

I think you’re justifying you’re poor treatment, similar to how a person in a relationship will justify staying with an abuser. But ultimately it is your decision to make. If you feel the good outweighs the bad, that’s a personal judgment. You did mention in the beginning that you’re not like the other guys in some respects. (I’m assuming maybe this means you don’t drink excessively, maybe avoid illegal drugs, or aren’t hooking up with girls in ways they may be encouraging) It takes a VERY strong personality to not go along with the crowd in those respects. That may be why they feel free to gang up on you. There may even be some who are trying to drive you out of the fraternity, whereas others are just going along. In my experience with Greek Life, I wouldn’t have put up with what you’re describing. It isn’t worth it to spend a lot of time with people who don’t respect you. But again, it’s your decision to make. Good luck!