Avoiding a college because someone else goes there?

umcp11
Wed, 20 Oct 2010 03:38:20 +0000

This is a silly question.

What parent would not let their child attend a great fit university simply because of a bf/gf?

Now, I hear the poster on the “what if the bf/gf is a terrible person who is going to cause untold troubles for your D/S” point. But quite frankly if you forbid your kid to go to a school that is a great fit and the destination of her/his current love…she/he will become angry and resentful. And probably not do very well at whatever college she/he ends up at anyway due to said anger and resentment.

Now, if D/S goes to school and then proceeds to get terrible grades the first year, that’s one thing. But you gotta give them a chance.