Bad boys... Grr.

JimboSteve
Sun, 20 Nov 2011 04:09:41 +0000

The major characteristic that girls are looking for is confidence. The reason that so-called “bad boys” are generally selected is because cockiness is often a corollary to confidence, and cocky guys can be jerks. Girls aren’t looking for a broken heart. They are looking for guys who can be themselves, and who seem confident. Sometimes, they fall for someone whose confidence is a symptom of a less desirable condition.

Stand tall, with good posture. Never slouch. Relax around people. Look them in the eyes when you speak to them, but don’t stare and don’t force conversation. Fill the room with your presence: be open to talking with everyone, but when you talk to people you like, make sure they know it. Approach women assertively, and let them know you like them (if you do) right off the bat. Listen to what they say, and respond with your opinions. Bring up subjects you’re interested in-- don’t settle for any topic that comes up. Don’t be afraid to laugh. Deal honestly with people, but also be sensitive to their feelings.

You will have all the characteristics that women generally look for in a guy’s personality, and none of the drawbacks that they settle for in jerks.