Bad Week, Need Advice

wisteria100
Fri, 28 Oct 2016 18:52:03 +0000

Regarding your roommate, if she is moving home to be a commuter, it is likely because she is having her own issues or rough time. It is not a reflection on you at all.
First semester is tough for most kids. Even though they may not show it on the outside, most have their own set of insecurities they are dealing with as a college freshman, some just do a better job of masking it. Regarding your hall, there is a tendency to hang out with hall mates in the beginning, because those are the people you see the most. But it is a random thing, and a lot of times, hall mates don’t end up being the best of friends. I bet by the end of the yr, you will see that some of these groups of friends have dissolved. It is normal to feel hopeless, but please don’t give up. Perhaps talk to your RA. She likely knows other girls who feel the exact way you do.