Boys who hate proms

HImom
Tue, 09 May 2006 12:21:49 +0000

I know folks who live by the “I’ll go with you to XXXX, but if something better comes up, I’ll ditch you.” I try never to make any firm plans with folks like those because I take any commitments I make to others seriously & really find it disrespectful of MY time & energy to be ditched at the last minute–it FEELS like you’re “chopped liver” & the last choice if there is NOTHING else to do. (Only interact with them when they’re family & can’t really totally “divorce” self from them.)