Caltech [$90k+] vs Columbia [$90k+] vs UCSD [full ride] CS/AI

RookieCollegeMom
Sun, 06 Apr 2025 12:51:35 +0000

Catcherinthetoast:

Right or wrong this is the reality of people’s perceptions well beyond the Bay Area. I understand and respect the desire to think and act independently beyond popular conceptions but ultimately you will pursue a career that will be impacted by how people perceive your education.

But should people sacrifice their financial and mental heath for other people’s perceptions? And once you have been out in the working world/proving yourself, I think where you got your degree matters less.

I see a lot of people around me who did not graduate from tippy top schools, or even graduate from any school, who are at the top of their chosen field.

People need to stop caring what they think everyone else thinks and do what works for them to have a healthy, happy, fulfilling life.

Agree with other posters’ that visiting the schools. That could really help make the decision easier (or harder ) Good luck!