Can someone please help me?

BrownParent
Sat, 02 Nov 2013 06:51:08 +0000

Oh!, you do enjoy digging yourself in deeper.

It is too early to tell if you can go to grad school or not. Things are just not to that point yet. But you are going to make darned sure you get there, it seems. You might want to consider: take a leave from college and get some help. You can shop therapists as mentioned above. Sure a good fit can be important. But it is also important not to find excuses to quit when it is uncomfortable for you. Rather to find out if the therapist finds you a lazy brat, or if that is really you putting that on her. That sort of thing. Get to the point where you can get some real insight and are going to be fine whether you go to grad school or not. Get a job at Starbucks and eat a little humble pie.

Then return to whatever college will suit your new goals. Finish with a 2.5 if you like–they will graduate you. Or, start doing the things you need to do to get into grad school. Maybe by then you can see an adviser without “get so upset and won’t be rational.” After jr year, new maturity might allow you to see beyond childish fantasy and evaluate if more college makes sense. That’s my 2 cents for now. Take care.