College Sophomore wants to marry

Cali_Trumpet
Thu, 19 Feb 2009 01:04:24 +0000

I do not know where you live, ellemenope, but size is a big thing in the Mormon church. Perhaps no particular number as stated by the church, except for “the more the merrier.”

If you live in Utah valley, it is NOT normal to have 0, one, or two children. It is much more common to see groups from 4-6+. Sure there is no “you must have 5 children” rule, but there is definitely an implication to have more children (especially boys) to add more Mormons to the pool.

There is no source needed. My brother has six children, and both of his neighbors had 4+ children. His Wife is one of 12 siblings. Going to church on Sundays, you generally see a Mom, Dad, and at least two kids. Many parents are in their early twenties, with plans to have more.