college SUCKS SOS

erh12345
Mon, 03 Oct 2016 04:12:37 +0000

hi guys, so im a freshman nursing major at a small state college. I decided to come here very very last minute as i had my heart set on a city college that i couldnt afford. I was also getting recruited for soccer here so that was another factor. But as i spent my first 4 weeks here, ive came to HATE it. Im an “out-of-stater” in this school which makes up about 7% of the school. Even though everyone is very nice and welcoming, i often feel like a misfit because everyone seems to know eachother already. Also, i feel like a misfit because i dont feel a connection with the people here and nobody is my “type” of person. my parents told me that ill get close with my soccer team once season starts and ill make my own close niche, but i fell out of love with the sport and i dont even want to continue anymore. My coach is not very open and he doesnt seem to care about academics. The season hasnt even started and he already puts so much pressure on us. Im not sure how im gonna be able to handle a sport and my nursing major. i am at a D3 school so quitting isnt a big deal, but then im back to sqaure one of not having a group. I even thought about joining a sorority but a lot of the soccer girls are in the sororities and might not like me anymore after i quit the team. All my other friends seem like theyre having an awesome time in college and all i do is study and cry. I cant help but to dwell on the fact that maybe if i chose my dream school regardless of the money that id be happier.

I thought about transferring but i found it quite dificult to transfer into nursing programs…

1. they have limited space

2. rigid structures of classes

3. dont offer a lot of scholarship
Ive called up so many schools to see if they accept nursing majors and so many said no or after i get all my prerequists in which would probably be around my junior year.

Im not sure what to do!! Stick it out, or transfer my major… (I really enjoy nursing however)
Maybe i could major in biology and get my nursing degree later?

Anyway please give me some feedback