Couples moving to the same city after graduation

somemom
Thu, 31 Mar 2016 22:17:44 +0000

So, CC people, how shall our OP tell his GF that he does not want to live together and not offend her or hurt her feelings. Many of the very legitimate reasons (for both of them) would tend to make the person hearing them feel pushed away, not wanted, or just that the OP really is not very sure about her and wants to keep his options open.

I feel like DD listened to me and I told her it was the best way to develop a healthy relationship. But I feel sad for the person who seems to be making all the sacrifices and don’t want her to feel like she is doing everything and he is doing nothing.

In truth, they owe to themselves some time living alone to grow as people before committing to their long distance SO.