Dating: Entertainment or Distraction?

Pearlinthemist
Sun, 28 Aug 2005 20:37:57 +0000

Maybe I’m not the best person to be responding, but I’m pretty sure you can balance dating and studying, it’s not like you’re going to be glued to eachother 24/7.

I’m not a party person, I’m more of a hermit that likes to crawl out occasionally for a good time. I’ve made friends in classes, but don’t really do a whole lot outside of class. In high school all my friends were girls, and I didn’t date except 1 guy. In college, most of my friends are guys… a couple of them have made it quite clear that they want to date me, but I’m not interested in dating them (I’m just not attracted to them in that way you know?)… (but unfortunatly nothing ever really develops with the guys I am attracted to). Anyhoo… I study, I get good grades, and sucessfully balance my non-existant dating scene.

What to do when someone asks you out really depends on how you feel about the person asking… if you like the guy, go out, have fun… if the thought of being with that guy makes your stomach turn, it’s probably better that you let him down easy & not go out with him.