Daughter dressing scantily

busdriver11
Mon, 14 Aug 2017 04:18:38 +0000

Thank you for your answer, @politicsdancegal, you sound very sensible. I am most certain that nobody is going to think of you in the terms that you describe.

But I hope that you understand that as you get older, the world is not as idyllic and accepting as your group of friends. People who do not know you well will make assessments based upon appearances. This idea that some posters are promoting, that men don’t notice and that what you wear won’t affect people’s perceptions of you, is an illusion. It’s good to understand what you’re dealing with.

Funny, the only time I’ve had an issue has been in the Middle East, with Arab men. I’ve had a couple of times that I was mistaken for a prostitute. Or maybe they just think American women are promiscuous. I dress in feminine cut t-shirts, jeans, and athletic shoes most of the time. I guess that screams, “Whore”, to some.