Daughter got accepted, not sure I can afford it

letsgetthisdone
Wed, 12 Jan 2011 01:43:11 +0000

hello everyone, posted on Dec 10 that daughter was accepted ed to first choice, but not to first choice program, so have lots of time to weigh the offers of the other 10 colleges. We chose to submit everything at the same time, meeting the ED decision deadline - so all 11 colleges got the common app at the same time. I think it was very wise. The First choice wanted all the Financial aid/CSS info by Nov 15 (using 2009). She’s received nice packages from at least 3 right off the bat without reviewing FAFSA or CSS. we’ve received letters from others in the top five requesting “more information” so they want our fafsa/css profile too - i guess i will check if they can accept the 2009 numbers with an estimate of 2010 or if i have to get my W2s in a hurry and go with those. In any case, the #1 choice gave her a package and it’s decent, but isn’t a full 4-year scholarship offer - and it’s the most expensive tuition-wise. A highly selective Eastern LAC is one that’s asked for this info and a copy of our 2009 tax return and W2s. I sent those immediately. D is chomping at the bit for to commit to the first choice school and I’m just gritting my teeth. Here’s my thought: i think the other schools that have already committed to her with $ guaranteed for 4 years really want her. I think the LAC is also interested. I think #1 choice doesn’t have to do anything - it gets 10s of thousands of apps per year from families with plenty of $. I’m thinking my D needs to understand this point. How much does the first choice school want her - not enough to commit to 4 years. Food for thought