Daughter has been lying to me!

123mom
Wed, 04 Aug 2010 22:14:26 +0000

Thank you for all of your advice.
Sally…I am talking here about me and about how I feel because of I felt I needed other’s perspective on how to handle this. But when I talk to her I stress how much support she will need when she makes the transition to college, and not talking to anyone, specially me, can leave her vulnerable.
You…yes I have, and how much damage it has done. I don’t want to be specific but it is pretty horrible. And our personality tends to be all or nothing, no middle ground, no restraint. But I have to say she is different and has exhibited self control where I would have not at her age. She insists that this group is responsible about how much they drink and that things never get out of control, she says if they suspect someone has had too much they stop the party and put everything away.