daughter is blaming us

cadbury
Sun, 27 Apr 2008 14:03:43 +0000

One other possibility that is less than ideal: You can double deposit. But your daughter (NOT YOU) should pay for the deposit to the second school. This way she is being given an opportunity to act like an adult, think about what she really wants, and make it happen.

Given that other, more subtle factors may be at play here, as suggested by other posters, it’s possible (maybe even likely?) that she will ultimately stay with the original school. But then she will have to own the decision and not blame you.