daughter is blaming us

boysx3
Sun, 27 Apr 2008 17:16:34 +0000

Maybe suggest that bf apply to a school near where is best for HER ? let her see if he would be willing to do for her what she is willing to do for him.

Also suggest that a year from now, if they are still together, they can see what schools he gets in to and make a plan at that point. What if she gave up her top school, and he does not get in to the school that was the basis of her alternate plan? Or if he changes what he wants to do or where he wants to go? Or if they breaK up?