daughter is blaming us

cadbury
Tue, 29 Apr 2008 07:37:38 +0000

“So she agreed that she would go and we agreed that if stretch school was not a good match-she could transfer. Now it is the next week, and she is attacking us saying we manipulated her into the school she does not want to go to.”

ASAP & Chedva, the above statement led me to conclude that they had already paid the deposit on the first school. If that’s the case, the only way for their D to go where she says she wants to is to double deposit. As I said, I’m not sure it would come to that if SHE had to assume responsibility and pay that second deposit. But if she opts to do that, she should immediately contact the first school and tell them of her decision. (Maybe I misused the term “double deposit” which implies not informing the second school until you’re sure of your decision.)