daughter is blaming us

Chedva
Sun, 27 Apr 2008 14:48:34 +0000

I agree with ASAP - this is now time to say, “OK. Go where you want to go. Transfer later if you want (but you will absorb the work and the costs). It’s your life.”

Let her make the decision and take her lumps. These are not the kind of decisions that are irrevocable, and she needs to own the decision.

(I also agree - do not double deposit. It is both unethical and unwise.)