Dealing with a nasty co-worker

HarvestMoon1
Sat, 19 Oct 2013 11:35:01 +0000

OP your post #51 sheds a lot of light on the situation. Unhappy people often have a need for conflict and discord. They draw you in to the negativity that is the sustenance of their lives. Unsuspecting, socially adjusted people such as yourself are taken off guard and begin to question what THEY are doing wrong and how they can fix the situation. In my opinion this is not your responsibility. You have made some adjustments in the way you communicate with her which should be helpful. I would give the situation no more thought and just accept that there will not be much of a relationship with this particular co-worker. Let her address her problems as she sees fit. I have a pretty good hunch that you are not the first co-worker that she has given the cold shoulder to.